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    August 18

    修身

    .我们不应以对方的言行来影响我们的情绪,我们自己应该发现和发展自己本体,并将此事凌驾于任何事物之上,改变别人和控制别人都是不可能的,或者是暂时的,或者说一定会落空的,我们能够掌控的是自己面对的态度,即使遭遇背叛也要看看自己该如何面对,不要一味的沉溺在悲伤与抱怨中。中国人讲修身 齐家 治国 平天下,可是现代人大多数都反着来 平天下 治国 齐家 修身。要知道我们在修身上还有很多功课要做。以外在的人事物的改变而改变我们自身的性情是本末倒置了。自己内在的创伤 心里坑洞要自己修复并发展出更广阔的空间,外在的人事物随缘 如果好是锦上添花 如果不好就就需发展自己的本体不要抱怨 不要悲伤 这样只能暴露更多的缺失。自己的功课一定要做,因为根本逃不掉。

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